Throughout my blog, I've shared a lot of the lessons I've learned throughout my HUSNG career (often times, the hard way). Here's another lesson I've learned: I'm not lazy and I don't have ADD. Motivation and work ethic are created by clearly defined goals.
Getting myself motivated to work, especially working consistently, has always been a big leak of mine. Over the past 2 years or so, I had toyed with different ways to keep myself consistently motivated. Even when taking consistent breaks to rest and recover (highlighted in my article 'Playing Poker for a Living' http://bit.ly/x5Bkxb), I still couldn't maintain consistent work ethic and motivation over 2 weeks or so. I wouldn't get burnt out per say, the breaks did help...I would just get lazy, unmotivated. My work ethic and consistency had improved a lot over that time, but I definitely had not reached a point I was satisfied with. It was frustrating. Fortunately, work ethic and motivation are skills, so they can be improved upon.
One afternoon in June, I was reading 'Unlimited Power' by Tony Robbins. Yes, I'm a sucker for corny shit like this :) Anyways, there is a chapter about goalsetting. The author lays out a 4 step plan for setting and pursuing goals. How did I not think about this before? It just seems too simple to me:
Step 1: Set clearly defined goals. Know your outcomes.
I thought to myself, "How can I expect myself to stay consistently motivated if I don't even know what I'm working towards?" Sure, I want to make lots of money, but I had never put much thought into the bigger picture...Why do I want to make a lot of money? What am I actually working towards? The answer for me: Family, Security, Opportunity, Self-Improvement, amongst others. It was just too easy for me to get complacent after a big upswing, or frustrated by short term setbacks, without having a clear picture of why I do what I do. Seeing the bigger picture has definitely helped me to keep the short term in perspective, both when things are going well or not so well.
Step 2: Take action towards those goals.
"The most effective way to do it, is to do it." Goal-setting is great, but without action goals will always just be dreams.
Step 3: Analyze whether actions are taking me closer to or further away from goals.
This part was tricky for me at first. The way I've dealt with it is I wrote out all of my long term goals, as well as some secondary shorter term goals to help me reach them. I scheduled on my calendar 30 mins or so every week to sit down and evaluate the actions I took over the previous 7 days. Did my actions take me closer to or further away from my goals? The tough part about this is that ego and bias can get in the way of sound judgement. Try to be as honest with yourself as possible, question yourself even if your results have been positive. Self-awareness is such an important skill for a poker player, imo.
Step 4: Be flexible and change behavior until I get what I want.
Self-improvement and accomplishing goals is all about trial and error. If your answer in Step 3 was, "No, my actions did not take me closer to my goals." Why not? What can you do differently next time to produce the results you want? Be willing to test yourself. Look at adversity and failure as learning opportunities. Keep adapting until you get what you want.
In 'The Mental Game of Poker', Jared Tendler wrote, "Goals are what you want now in the future." That's some deep shit, Jared. What he means is that your priorities and values will change over time. The person you are today will likely not be the person you will be in a few years.
This method of setting and pursuing goals has had a very positive impact on me personally. I'm more motivated and can work more consistently now than I ever have before. I still have a long ways to go to to reach the goals I've set for myself, but I wanted to share my approach with you all. I hope some of you find this approach useful!
In my next post, I will set some poker goals for September. I want to put in a lot of volume (by Revolution standards) and get another 4 videos released.
Good luck.
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